Getting to Zero, Jayson Gaddis

How to "get to zero"-resolve your conflicts with the people around you by understanding the origins of your conflict style and avoidance patterns-from the founder of The Relationship School. Getting to Zero is a dynamic, user friendly, practical conflict resolution method aimed at helping readers work through conflict with those they care about as quickly as possible. Chances are most of us deal with conflict on a daily basis with friends, family members, lovers, partners, and even co-workers, and when unresolved it can affect every single aspect of our lives, from self-confidence to physical and mental health.

Jayson Gaddis is a personal trainer for relationships. Conflicts in our closest relationships are scary because so much is at stake. If the conflict doesn''t go well, we could lose our marriage, our family or our job, all connected to our security and survival. So we''ll do just about anything to not lose those relationships, including avoid conflict, betraying ourselves or becoming dishonest.

Ironically, these adaptations create even more conflict. Embracing conflict does not mean that we encourage fights with other people or that we condone abusive relationships. It means that we stop running away from uncomfortable conversations and instead learn how to work through them.